An internet tale about a distraught Nigerian man who lost his lover because he was too kind to her is going viral.
The man going by Ayo posted a WhatsApp message he received this morning on his verified page on X, the former name of Twitter. In it, his girlfriend confessed that their relationship was finished.
In the message she wrote to her partner before he woke up, the woman claimed that the main reason she couldn’t carry on with the relationship was because he was so kind, but she also mentioned that he didn’t show much emotion.
She continued by saying that, although she finds it sweet that her partner doesn’t display annoyance or rage, he is not the kind of man she wants for herself.
She wrote; “Hello Ayo, good morning I bet you’re still sleeping and I hope this message doesn’t really come as a shock to you.
I know you don’t like when I write epistles but I really can’t help it cus I’ve thought about it and I know this would be hard for me to say and hard for you to accept but I don’t think I can continue this anymore.
I mean, I CANNOT CONTINUE THIS RELATIONSHIP ANYMORE.
Don’t get me wrong, you’re a nice guy as a matter of fact, I think you’re too nice. And that’s one of the reasons this can’t work.
You barely express emotions, when I expect you to be mad at me you don’t, you don’t show anger or annoyance. I mean, it’s a cute thing but that’s really not the kind of man I want for myself.
I trust that you can understand. I’m a woman that is thinking of settling down and this isn’t what I want for myself.
I’m really sorry if this would ruin your morning when you see it tomorrow. But move on, cus I have moved on already. I hope you find someone that would love you the way you are, unfortunately that person is not me.
I would be blocking you for my sanity and mental health cus I know you’ll want to beg me, I don’t want to be emotionally guilt tripped into changing my mind. I’ll advice you do the same Take care and thank you for loving me the way you did, I’ll forever cherish that.”
Upon waking up in the morning to see the message, Ayo, who was not expecting the “breakfast,” responded:
Babe are you serious now?
What is all these fgs?
Wait, did you block me?
Sharing the breakup message from his girlfriend, he wrote; “I can’t believe what I just woke up to read, fuvk this is hard for me .’
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